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Enjoy the flowers, fall in love: Chinese univ push for romance in an age of decline

In a country long defined by exam pressure and relentless competition, a gentle, almost poetic message has emerged from an unlikely place: a university noticeboard.

“Enjoy the flowers, fall in love.”

That was the call from Sichuan Southwest Vocational College of Aviation this week, as it urged students to put aside their books during the spring break and embrace something far less measurable than grades – romance.

The college’s six-day holiday, running from April 1 to 6, carries the theme “see the flowers and enjoy romance”. It is a striking shift in tone in a system where academic performance has long overshadowed personal life. Yet the message is not as simple as it sounds.

Behind the soft language lies a harder national concern.

A country searching for balance

China is grappling with a demographic slowdown that has become impossible to ignore. In 2025, the population declined for the fourth consecutive year, with birth rates falling to historic lows. For policymakers in Beijing, the issue is no longer abstract – it is economic, social and deeply personal.

Encouraging young people to form relationships, marry and eventually have children has become part of a broader strategy to reverse the trend.

At the same time, authorities are trying to nudge citizens towards spending more. Travel, leisure and time away from work are now being promoted as tools to boost domestic consumption in a nation of 1.4 billion people.

The introduction of spring and autumn holidays, alongside traditional summer and winter breaks, reflects that shift. Provinces such as Sichuan and Jiangsu, and cities including Suzhou and Nanjing, are already rolling out plans for these new pauses in the academic calendar.

Time, love and the cost of living

For many young people, however, the challenge goes beyond finding time to stroll among spring blossoms.

“Society needs to have enough time and money to raise children,” said James Liang, co-founder of travel company Trip and a prominent demographic expert. He has long argued that policies must go further – offering financial support and reshaping public attitudes towards family life.

His point touches a deeper truth: romance may be encouraged, but marriage and parenthood come with rising costs, career pressures and shifting priorities among China’s youth.

Building ‘child-friendly’ futures

Recognising this, the National Development and Reform Commission has called for the creation of “child-friendly cities”, with better services spanning education, healthcare, transport, sports and recreation.

It is an ambitious vision – one that attempts to make family life not only possible, but appealing.

A softer message in a hard reality

Against this backdrop, the university’s message feels both tender and strategic.

To “enjoy the flowers” is, on the surface, an invitation to pause. To “fall in love” is something more – a quiet encouragement in a society where personal choices are increasingly intertwined with national priorities.

Whether such gestures can truly influence a generation remains uncertain. But for now, as spring approaches, students are being asked to look up from their books, step outside, and perhaps, just perhaps, imagine a different kind of future.